Why Me?

Why me!

I’m sure somewhere or other you asked yourself, oh god! ‘Why me’! When having a stressful day, or when a lot of things go wrong — perhaps seriously wrong — all at one time, many people ask themselves the question, “Why me?” Or, “Why is this happening”? This question arises when you think you are the most unlucky person struggling to survive in this world.

When we ask this question?

These are certain scenarios when we say ‘why me’!

• When we are in the middle of the bath and water went out.

• When you are on a date with your girl friend, and your bike went shut in the middle of the road.

• When you reach your examination hall just a minute before it begins, but you realize you forget            your admit card at home.(dead inside)

• When you come fully prepared with chemistry but the exam is of maths.

• When you get diagnosed by a serious disease. 

• When you lose a person who is very close to your heart.

• When you get punished for the crime you haven’t committed.

What are the reasons behind this question?

It’s the sign of negativity. It also showcases our pessimistic approach towards life. It’s simple, when we expect something good but it turns up as a disappointment, with all are emotional breakdown we curse our life and ask ‘why me’! When we are full of anger, annoyance, vexation and irritation we exactly don’t understand what to do we simply cry my lord ‘why me’! This situation leads to frustration because it’s very heart-rending to comprehend everything around you getting wrong.

Never lose hope

There are several personalities who dealt with all the difficulties and reached the height of glory but never asked god… ‘why me’!

• Dr. A.P.J Abdul Kalam – a man belong to a very poor family became the  President of India well         know as missile man.

• Yuvraj Singh – a very well known Indian cricketer defeated lung cancer and made a comeback           in the team.

• Stephen Hawking – The most brilliant scientist suffer from rare motor neuron disease, is well             known in the field of Astronomy.

• Eminem- best rapper in the world and his success story is well known to everyone. 

How can we deal with it?

So, now we know why we ask this question. This generally happens when we lack self-confidence. You should believe in yourself. We should try to understand that whatever happens, happen for some reason which we get to know later.

Instead of crying on what is written in the stars one should prepare oneself for the worst case scenario. Not every time you can control what is happening around you but as an alternative you can train yourself, how to deal with it. For positivity, instead of crying ‘why me’ with joyful smile say it loud ‘Try me!’

एक प्राचीन शहर बनारस

  :­-  नमन श्रीधर

वाराणसी कहें या कहें बनारस , हर बार जब भी इस शहर का नाम सुनाई देता  है, तब हमारे दिमाग में गंगा के घाट , काशी  विश्वनाथ मंदिर , और यहाँ का वर्ल्ड फेमस पान याद आता है|                              

 इसे  प्राचीन शहर और भगवान शिव कि नगरी काशी के नाम से जाना जाता है , पर क्या आप जानते है कि आखिर ये शहर है कितना पुराना ? वाराणसी कि प्राचीनता से जुड़े कई  मिथ और मान्यताएँ  मौजूद है|

  चलिए जानते है ये कहानियाँ

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(शिव महापुराण) के अनुसार

कई मान्यताओं में से एक भगवान शिव से जुड़ी है |  एक बार कि बात है जब  भगवान ब्रहमा ने शिव जी से  झूठ बोला था जिससे क्रोधित होकर उन्होंने ब्रहमा जी का पांचवा  सर  काट  दिया था |

(जी हाँ आपन सही सुना उस समय ब्रहमा जी के पांच सर हुआ करते थे )

(Source: https://www.pinterest.com/pin/52424783137559026/?lp=true)

ब्रहमा जी का पांचवा सर काटने के महादेव पर ब्रह्महत्या का पाप चढ़ गया था| जिसके कारण ब्रहमा जी का कटा हुआ  सर भगवन शिव के दाएं हाथ से चिपक गया था| वे इससे छुटकारा पाने के लिए वे कालभैरव के रूप लेकर यहाँ से वह भटकने लगे| पर जब वे इस काशी (बनारस) आते हसी तब उनके हट से ब्रहमा जी का सर अपने आप अलग हो जाता है | 

(Source: http://masadiary.info/pages/r/rudra-shiva-wallpaper-life-ok/)

और वे पाप मुक्त हो जाते है | तब से उन्होंने काशी में  निवास कर लिया| इसलिए आज भी कहा जाता है  कि काशी भगवान शिव के त्रिशूल पे टिकी है |

वामन पुराण के आनुसार ये पता चलता है कि वरुणा और अस्सी नदी प्राचीन समय से यहाँ बहती है | उत्तर कि ओर वरुणा और दक्षिण कि ओर अस्सी | तो इस तरह इस शहर का नाम पड़ा वाराणसी |      

• ·         इस शहर के दूसरा नाम  है काशी , काशी कश शब्द से निकलता है , जिसका मतलब है उज्जला |
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• ·         अविमुक्त , अनाद्कानन , सुदार्सना, रम्या ये सभी बनारस के ही नाम है |

                                              

जैसे कि एक प्रसिद्ध लेखक मार्क ट्वेन ने कहा है ;

 ‘बनारस’ इतिहास से पुराना, रीति रिवाजों से पुराना ,मान्यताओं से भी पुराना और देखने में इन सभी को मिलके दोगुना पुराना लगता है|

FADING CHILDHOOD

                         

How lucky we were to have such an eminent childhood! Most of the people I know are lucky as me, but is every child in this nation equally lucky? The childhood is not merely a time from birth till a certain age but is the irretrievable experience that one never forgets. It is well said, “The childhood is the kingdom where nobody dies”. Seriously! Like all that glitter’s is not gold, similarly not everyone have a childhood worth remembering.

In our country where children are considered as gods, there are still many children who are not even considered as simple human beings. Yes, you read it right, the condition of children is getting more awful every day. The underprivileged children are facing it even worse. According to India’s constitution which gives the right to every child, free and compulsory education as per (RTE). It denotes the importance of education, that children between 6 to 14 years of age can access free and compulsory education.

  

The government has done its job by making this law, but somewhere it lacked in its full-fledged implementation. In our daily life we come through many children working at the dhabhas , selling tea at the railway stations, doing household jobs etc. from this we come to know that there is still a scope for betterment.

“CHILDHOOD, after all, is the precious coin that poverty steals from a child.”

In the age when one should be playing marbles, spinning lattu, running errands, these children lost their childhood, working to fetch some money. If we try to find out the reason due to which they have to engage themselves in these activities we will find out the Financial crisis, Alcoholic parents and Health issues with their family member being the driving force. To overcome this situation they have to step out of their shell of childhood and have to take the responsibility of their home.

In their tender age of their childhood, they fade away from their innocence and become mature. Without complaining to anyone they devote themselves in odd jobs. Hoping for better living. But many times they get exploited physically as well as mentally which put an adverse effect on them. In the worse case, they get abducted as well as trafficked and forcefully forced to beg. While a girl is trafficked, which is a matter of serious consideration.

Now, this should not be considered as the duty of our government only, but it’s also our responsibility to take considerable initiative in order to save the childhood and uproot this evil practice of child labour from our society, in order to make India a better place for every child to  live up to their dreams.

Penned BY:-

NAMAN SHRIDHAR

Youth And The Nation

In the age of globalization when the world is  coming  closer , several things have changed. It has provided the wide area of accessibility and also the opportunities to showcase their skills. As we all know that India is known for having highest  youth population. Which shares 28% of its entire  population of the nation and said to be the largest human resource in the world. Due to this impenetrable load on working population,  the problem of Unemployment as well as Brain drain came into existence.

      Unemployment is when the people with required educational qualification unable to fetch jobs due to population pressure and tough competition. Due to this reason they  have to look   for other alternatives which  is below their caliber. 

The quote “EMPTY VESSELS MAKE MORE NOISE” seem to be true when every time we hear about several anti-social activities run across the nation, and the reason  turn up to be unemployment. It is simple that if the youth is kept ignorant such incidents will come up as the news headlines. But now the government is is looking forward turn the  youth skilled by the initiative like ‘Pradhan MantrI Kaushal Vikas Yojna’ and ‘STARTUP INDIA’.

In the present day, India has became a production firm of talented youths in the field of engineering, medicines and different sciences. Every year  a good number of skilled youths are hired by the foreign  companies offering them  handsome salary packages. Which definitely  left no option for them rather to migrate to the abroad nation. Assuming that they get exploited in their work place is not true, instead  with their hard work and skills the reach the top position in their respective companies. Here the point is not that how good they  do in abroad but the thing which we have to understand is , what are reason that after completing their studies they prefer going abroad than working in their own country.

 So basically we are just creating skilled youth for foreign nations. Which simply a matter of brain drain. If  we seriously  want to withhold the brain drain then it’s the duty of our government to generate good opportunities for the skilled youth ,only then we can achieve our goal of reverse brain drain. With  better economic policies and highest human capital to excute it , there is still a hope left for INDIA to become develop in all aspects.